Monday, January 2, 2012

How many girlfriends does it take to.......?

OK, let's tally-up, shall we?
2 in NC
3 in Florida
1 in Kentucky
1 in NV
and 4 ex-wives, one abusive now-deceased-father, one elderly adorable mother, and one non-existent fictional God-Mother in Sarasota who apparently has the worst luck ever. I mean, she's been bitten by snakes, had a house fire, multiple deaths in her family (her sister died TWICE!!) and she is THE best party hostess in all of FL, considering she has birthday parties every 2 weeks for someone or another, that Xavier simply MUST attend. I don't know HOW "Cookie" finds the emotional strength to host so many festive parties when she has been through soooooo much anguish. (*insert eye-roll here*)
And let's not forget the live-in GF that he so conveniently leaves out of every conversation. I must give him credit, though....he manages to erase every sign of her when he has weekend house guests when she is away.
How I miss the telephone calls at 2am, asking for phone sex (NOT!!!)
and the fake concern for my well-being....the planned (then cancelled) trips to the beach.....the way he sniffs every 2 seconds due to his allergies....the way he kisses (I can only describe it as feeling like a slobbery St. Bernard engulfing your face).....the way he obsessively applies Blistex.....the way he will only eat steak, spaghetti, cheese pizza, vanilla ice cream or KFC (but ONLY the legs!!).....oh I could go on and on.....more to come!

Saturday, December 31, 2011

Xavier Pullara

Promises unfulfilled, lies fabricated, deceit perfected....quite a resume` he's got going so far. I stumbled across multiple posts about him, and while not totally surprising, it did answer many questions.
I have often wondered how a person can lie so much without any feelings of regret. He seems to neither comprehend nor care that his actions affect others besides himself. To live one's life solely for the purpose of self-gratification without regard to the ramifications can only be described by one word.....sociopathy.
I've never been confident in saying this about any other human being, but I am better than Xavier. I have never in my life set out to purposely hurt another person. I have never lied to someone about anything more important than how their dress looked, or whether their shoes were cute. I have never used my own mother as an excuse to spin a web of lies. I have never made-up non-existent people to have to explain away any confusing behavior. I have never committed an act of violence upon a child, much less been arrested for it. I have never sworn that I loved someone when in fact I did not.
I often wonder what karma is in store for this man as the years pass by. So far, he seems rather unscathed. While I would never wish for ill-will upon someone I once loved, I must admit I look forward to watching him fall. Some day........